The futility of sleep gadgets ….getting professional sleep help

By Kate, 16th June 2020

As a paediatric sleep consultant, providing professional sleep help for families there are a few questions I’ve grown accustomed to hearing. People are understandably curious about whether or not their child is going to cry, and if so, for how long. They want to know how long it’s going to take before baby starts sleeping through the night, and when they’ll be able to do the same.

That’s not the verbiage they use, obviously. What they do say is something to the tune of, “A friend of mine got her toddler a special sleep suit and she says her little baby has been conking out at bedtime ever since.” 

When parents come to me for professional sleep help

Even though they never come right out and say it in so many words. They want to know if there’s some kind of magical solution. Something, that will solve the problem instantaneously without any effort, crying, or protest.

Then they give me a slightly hopeful, somewhat quizzical look, hoping that maybe, just maybe, I’ll tell them that their child is an ideal candidate for the magical sleep suit, and that it’ll solve their baby’s sleep problems in an instant. 

The gadgets

When you consider how many products out there say they’ll get your baby to sleep, it’s not surprising that parents think that maybe one of them might be the solution. Maybe the self-rocking crib? The vibrating mattress pad? The weighted blanket? The motion-detecting auto-shusher? The hypnotising bedtime book? 

I’m not making this stuff up. All of those are actual products available for purchase, and that’s not even close to a complete list.

Now, I’m not saying that these products don’t help your baby fall asleep. In fact, I would suggest the opposite. I think many of them actually do exactly what they say, and therein lies the problem.

Let’s take the hypnotising baby book as an example. If you have young kids, you’ve almost undoubtedly heard of it in the last year. It’s the first self-published book to climb to the top of Amazon’s bestseller list, promising to get your kids to go to sleep through repetitive phrases and near-constant yawning on the part of the reader. 

Do the gadgets really work?

Let’s say you buy the book, read it to your child, and it puts them out like a light. I’m guessing you know by now that babies, like the rest of us, don’t just fall asleep and stay asleep for 10 straight hours. We all go through sleep cycles that take us from light sleep into deep sleep and back again. In between those stages, we tend to wake up. Adults typically don’t even remember it, since we’re able to get back to sleep on our own. Babies are different, and often rely on some kind of a crutch to get back to sleep.

So unless you like the idea of getting up every two or three hours to switch the rocking crib back on, you’re setting yourself and your baby up for some genuinely unpleasant nights.

Sleep is a skill, and I don’t say that metaphorically. It’s no different than swimming, riding a bike, driving a stick shift, or playing the piano. We may be born with the ability to fall asleep, but it still takes some practice to refine that skill. So when you lull your little one to sleep with motion, shushing, vibration, or feeding, you’re doing all of the practice for them. You’re constantly holding the seat of their bike while they’re trying to learn to ride it.

Consider professional sleep help

That’s what sets a sleep consultant apart from all of these gadgets. Together, we teach your child to master those sleeping skills safely. Using professional sleep help can ensure we take your child step by step, from beginner to expert, until they are sleeping happily and independently.

That means that no matter where they’re sleeping and regardless if the battery dies on their self-rocking crib. They’ll have no problem getting themselves off to sleep, and staying asleep, straight through the night.

That comes with the obvious benefit of a well-rested child, (as well as well-rested parents) but there’s another huge plus when your baby really gets the hang of this skill. They love to do it.

Bedtime is precious bonding time

Just the same as any other skill, when we’re good at something, we enjoy doing it. It’s no longer frustrating. My little one, and the vast majority of those that I’ve worked with, absolutely love bedtime. There are no more bedtime battles, no tears, just a happy winding-down. With some quality time with their parents to look forward to before they get into bed.

Invest your money wisely

Dropping a few hundred pounds every six months when your baby outgrows their weighted sleep sack, is a pricey set of training wheels. Especially when you consider that they’re really just treating the symptom and not the cause.

Getting some professional sleep help. Teaching your baby the skills needed to fall asleep on their own really is the cure-all for their nighttime woes.

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